A Change of Heart

Change of heart.

Have you ever had a change of heart? It's interesting how we can be so adamant about how we feel, and then something changes, and we find ourselves thinking differently. I find also that during situations like these there is a softening of the heart that results in a kinder, more gentler you. 

We cling tightly to what we know, what we have been taught, and what we believe to be true. Allowing yourself to be more receptive to change, might result in viewing things in a different way. Sometimes what holds us back is not having reached out to the unknown. 

A change of heart can allow you to be less judgemental and can open the door for better understanding. It's easy to compartmentalize those things you do not want to address, but putting a name to a face allows for a more compassionate stance. 

I believe that most of us probably have core values that we consider nonnegotiable, however, sometimes we just need to soften around the edges to make a difference. I found once that it wasn't until I had a personal relationship with someone that I gained a new empathy for their struggle. My change of heart made for a deeper friendship. 

Never shy from an opportunity to have a change of heart when it comes to showing love for your neighbor. 

"A change of heart leads to a change in behavior..."

Marianne Williamson