Thursday, October 31, 2019

The Wander Society


The Wander Society
(Originally posted on January 4, 2017)


I'm contemplating becoming a member.

 "Society wants us to live a planned existance, following paths that have been travelled by others. Tried and true. The known, the expected, the controlled, the safe."



These are the words of Keri Smith, author of an intriguing book entitled The Wander Society. Wandering does not have to be a place that you visit, it can be a state of mind. Allowing your thoughts to wander is a way to spur on your own creativity. 


Recently, I saw an "out of the box" idea on Face Book. Amazon has come up with a clever idea surrounding the many millions of boxes that are delivered during the Christmas season. Instead of throwing them out, why not fill them up with items you no longer need or want, and use a free shipping label to send them to Goodwill? I'm always impressed by ingenuity. 

I'm thinking that members of the Wander Society are probably comfortable doing things in a new and different way. They might find themselves asking "Why?" and "Why not?" more than most. A wanderer probably will embrace adventure and risk as opposed to the familiar.  I'm hoping to find myself wandering more in the next year. 


Creativity Suggestion 

Just Do It

I’m borrowing this expression, but there is a lot of truth in it. Thanks for reading along about creativity for the last thirty-one days. I’ve included thirty creativity suggestions, and I hope you were inspired to try at least one. What I’ve realized is that I am a creative person who craves creativity in my life. I hope that you have opened up to your inner critic. 

Next month I’ll be back to my M-W-F posting hoping still to encourage you on your own journey. Until then I hope you find grace daily in your life, and your interactions with those sent along your path. 

Wednesday, October 30, 2019

Ideas

Ideas
(Originally posted on July 28, 2016) 


I absolutely love ideas. 

I especially love it when an idea grows wings and takes flight. Oliver Wendell Holmes remarked, "Man's mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions."


I think sometimes we have a tendency to limit our ideas. Or if an idea does present itself we might not be paying close enough attention. Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Big Magic, believes that if not embraced by its original owner an idea will move onto a more willing participant. 


I've learned to be more open to ideas. I am more observant of what I see, hear and read. If an idea comes to mind, I am quick to jot it down, so it can be revisited at a later date. I find that ideas are what sparks creativity. 


There is a journalistic term called "saving string."  It refers to saving all those bits and pieces that come along the way that can be used for that next great story. One of my favorite movies from the 80's was Working Girl starring Melanie Griffith. Her character would do just that. Always on the lookout for interesting ideas, she combined them to change the tragectory of her life. 


Ideas come from many places. Be on the look out and see what develops.


Creativity Suggestion 


Take a Break

Sometimes you need to take a break when it comes to creativity. Forcing creativity is rarely productive. If you are feeling stuck watch a movie, or bake some cookies. Take a walk near water, and be amazed at the inspiration that being near water brings. More than anything be observant, and open to what may come. Just forgetting the project at hand might be just what you need to be reinspired by something seemingly unrelated. Except isn’t everything somehow connected when it comes to being creative?

Tuesday, October 29, 2019

Novelty


Novelty
(Originally posted on May 10, 2016)


Novelty is the quality of being new, original or unusual. Psychologist, Elisha Goldstein teaches, "Novelty is one of the fastest routes to creating new neural connections." 


How can we bring more novelty into our lives? Especially if you are one who tends toward routine. But when you think of novelty as something that is actually good for you, it seems a win-win. 


I was reading yesterday about the lives of some famous artists, and a common thread between them seemed to be their thirst for novelty. What made them different from others of their day was that they were not content to settle for the status quo. For some, that meant that their work was not recognized during their lifetime. However, they would never had been content to be a carbon copy of someone else just to sell a painting. 


Look for novelty in your own life, and your brain will thank you. 


Creativity Suggestion 

Listening to Music

I can honestly say that music was an important part of my life up until about the 90’s. Now this actually makes me sad in admitting this, but when rap music hit my favorite stations I found myself tuning out.  I was always a huge lover of pop and folk music. I spent many dollars of my allowance, and many hours of time listening to my favorite artists growing up. 

Today on occasion I like to listen to songs from the 70’s. I think the fact that I know the words, and can sing along makes it more enjoyable for me. Perhaps that’s why I secretly begin listening to Christmas music before Thanksgiving. 

Instrumental music can be quite inspirational to creativity, and classical music has been tied to doing better on exams. One of my biggest regrets in life is never having learned how to play an instrument. It’s what was responsible for my daughter taking piano lessons during elementary school. I’m not sure she’s forgiven me yet. 

How is music a part of your life?





Monday, October 28, 2019

Yes


Yes
(Originally posted on May 2, 2016)


There is power in saying yes. Yes seems to get the ball rolling. It opens doors and possibilities. 


Singer-songwriter Jason Mraz believes, "Yes is the key that unlocks potential." 
One definition of potential according to Mirriam Webster is, "existing in possibility." I love that! What a wonderful way to view the world. 


Mraz also states that yes, "...really is the key to creativity and that creativity doesn't happen if you say no." Using a key as a visual fits beautifully with the idea of unlocking potential and possibilities. 


Sometimes committing to yes is difficult. It might force you out of your comfort zone.  It might open the door to ridicule or rejection if you fall short. It might be hard to fit it into your already busy schedule. Saying no might just be easier. But life really is one opportunity after another, and each of those opportunities allow us to learn more about our world and ourselves. 


Now when I'm talking about yes, I don't mean one more committment, one more batch of cookies, or one more committe post. I'm talking about something you've always wanted to do, for whatever reason you've always talked yourself out of it. 


Maybe today is the day to say yes. 


Creativity Suggestion 

Travel Journal 

I started a travel journal years ago when Chuck and I first got married. Now full with disclosure here I still have not recorded all the trips we have taken over the years into the actual journal. I find that somewhat tedious at times, and I am easily bored. That being said, my practice has been to record it usually on the complementary notepad provided by the hotel. As I think about a more creative way to do a travel journal, I can’t help but think making it a little bit more like a scrapbook might be better. Im thinking maybe including things like ticket stubs, or possibly a picture or two. Using colored inks or travel stickers found at Hobby Lobby could help jazz it up. Use your imagination and enjoy the process as you relive your adventures. 

Sunday, October 27, 2019

Left Brain Right Brain


Left Brain, Right Brain
(Originally posted on April 27, 2016)


If you were to ask me which hemisphere of my brain was more dominant, I would probably tell you my left. I am very analytical, organized, and view my life as a series of time oriented events. However, on the flip side I am also very imaginative, and funny, and quick to look for resourceful ways to solve my problems. 


And this is where my dilemma arises. I have struggled to call myself a "creative." I am too conventional in my thoughts and appearance. I don't feel comfortable sticking out as different. Although I enjoy art, my lack of drawing ability has kept me from considering myself a true artist. 


How could someone like me who leans so strongly toward the left brain really be creative? And yet in my heart of hearts, I knew I was, and had been my entire life. 
Well apparently new research is dismissing the old myth that only strongly right brained individuals are truly creative. New studies are finding that creativity is a combination of both sides of the brain; a more whole brain approach.

 According to Deborah K. Heisz in Live Happy "In other words all of us have a creative network just waiting to be activated." 


This was validated just the other day when I took one of those Facebook quizzes about the brain. My results were 55% left brain, and 45% right brain. Of course, this is not a scientific study, but it did help answer my question as to how I could be primarily left brain, and still highly creative. 


If you've given up on yourself as being creative, you might want to reconsider, and look for your own personal route to creativity. 


Creativity Suggestion 

Try Something New

Recently I sampled a new flavor of Bluebell ice cream. Although I don’t regularly indulge I couldn’t resist trying Pumpkin Spice Pecan, and I can honestly tell you it didn’t disappoint. On a healthier note, along with chocolate hummus, pumpkin hummus with apples is a new favorite. Living a creative life involves being open to new things. If you haven’t tasted anything new lately branch out and give it a try. A good place to start might be at Panera Bread where they now offer a Mediterranean Grain Bowl with chicken. Yummy!


Saturday, October 26, 2019

Limiting Beliefs


Limiting Beliefs
(Originally posted on February 25, 2016)
Are you guilty of this? 

"They put limitations on themselves before they even start to consider the many options available to them." 
Doreen Marcial Poreba brings to light the fact that often times we've already made up our mind before we even begin. We refuse to fully examine all the possible options available to us. 
This goes along with the idea of false choices. Many times we narrow things down to one or two possibilities. The reality is that generally if you allow yourself you can come up with other possible options. 
Holding onto our limiting beliefs keeps our thinking small. It plays into the idea of scarcity, where there just isn't enough to go around. 




In my quest to include more creativity in my life, I don't want to automatically limit myself by limiting my options. Allowing yourself to think outside the box may be just the thing you need to expand your beliefs about what is possible in your life. 


Creativity Suggestion 


Zentangles

If you are wanting to try something new I’ve included step-by-step instructions for zentangles.

Friday, October 25, 2019

The Journey


The Journey
(Originally posted on February 23, 2016)


You have probably heard the words, "It's the journey, not the destination that is important "


I think perhaps it really is both, however, sometimes we are in such a rush to get to the destination that we overlook the journey.  Our society is very results oriented. If there is no score or bottom-line then people assume there is little value. 


However, when it comes to creativity, the journey is the hidden pot of gold. You see most of us will never make our living through our creative pursuits. Most of us will not be recognized by the world for our creative accomplishments. But the value of expressing ourselves through creativity is what sweetens the journey. 


There is something about being involved in an activity that when you look up you wonder where the time went. This is called flow, and it is that rare experience where time seems to stand still. You are so involved in the moment that you lose track of time. It is a sweet feeling, and the satisfaction it brings is great. 


Look for small ways to express yourself creatively.  I know for me, I find great pleasure in writing. I do not consider it a chore, and look forward to the time I can devote to this pursuit. There is certainly nothing wrong with the destination, but enjoy the journey more. 


Creativity Suggestion 

Collections

In today’s minimalistic world collections do not seem to hold the appeal they once did. I have been a collector most of my life, and only at the age I am now have slowed down in this pursuit. Collections can be like treasure hunts as you find things along the way that are just perfect to add to your accumulation. Perhaps my most fun collection has been the thimbles I have collected over the last thirty-four years from many of the places I have visited. Because of their tiny size they fit perfectly in a printers tray which takes up very little room in my house. Each time I gaze at it I am brought back to a different time in my life. I suppose this is really a collection of memories more than anything. What do you collect?


Thursday, October 24, 2019

Beginner


Beginner
(Originally posted on February 19, 2016)

Agree to allow yourself to be a beginner. In her book, Unlocking Your Creativity, author Doreen Marcial Poreba states, "Agreeing to be a beginner at something throughout your life will keep you open to newness, support brain functioning, and invite growth."


As children we were in a constant state of being a beginner. No one just jumped on their bike and took off.  Cursive handwriting required hours of practice before it became legible. But somewhere around adolescence we become hesitant to try new things. Being a beginner became too much of a risk. "What would our friends think?"


As we enter adulthood this may keep us from pursuing new skills. But the truth is that all new things require some sort of a learning curve, and that is perfectly natural. Rome wasn't built in a day, and we have to allow ourselves the time needed to achieve mastery. 


One of the findings in studies of the aging brain, is that learning something new is quite beneficial to the brain. Perhaps learning something completely new, like a language or an instrument, might be even better. Pursuing a new skill will only add to our cognitive growth. 


The lesson learned from childhood is to enter a new task knowing you are a beginner, but not giving up hope that over time you'll get better and better.  

Creativity Suggestion 

Create a Card

I used to do this on my computer, and enjoyed coming up with creative messages. I have a friend who is quite adept at this, and makes cards for a group of high school friends each year. I have another friend who makes her own handmade cards. I was just at Hobby Lobby the other day, and they have a whole section of card making supplies. Either way taking the time to put together a unique specially-made card is both a win for the recipient, and a win for the creator. 

Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Creative Pursuits


Creative Pursuits
(Originally posted on February 18, 2016)
How do you view creativity? 


Is it a necessity or an option? Doreen Marcial Poreba believes, "Seeing creativity as a necessity means it's not optional; you feel it's a requirement in your life."


In the past when I did not make creativity a priority, I felt a restlessness in my life. I kept thinking something was missing, but could never quite put my finger on it. 


Retirement brought me the gift of time, and creativity became a part of my life. I've made a list of my creative pursuits, and perhaps they might give you a few ideas. Journalist Bill Moyer believes, "Creativity is piercing the mundane to find the marvelous." I have to agree. 

Writing: Blogging
Art Journal
Bible Journaling
Knitting and Crocheting
Scrapbooking
Photography
Coloring
Cooking
Decorating
Repurposing

Creativity Suggestion 

Doodles.

If you are a little hesitant to draw, because like me, you might find your talent lacking, then doodling might be right up your alley. Doodling does not actually have to be an identifiable object. Rather it can be a series of lines and squiggles. For some people doodling is actually a way to stay focused while listening to someone speak. Doodling is just another creative outlet that can be pursued without too much trepidation as to the final result. Grab a marker or two, and get to doodling. 


Tuesday, October 22, 2019

Ask a Different Question




Ask a Different Question
(Originally posted on July 15, 2019)


If you are stuck coming up with a solution to a problem it might be time to ask a different question. 


In the article How to Think Like Leonardo by Keith Harry and Eileen Donahue Robinson, they give the example of trying to arrange a certain number of desks into a small office area. As they struggled to make it work they realized that they were asking the wrong question. 


It wasn’t how many desks can we fit in a room they needed,  but rather how many people can we provide a workspace for?   In looking at the situation differently they realized that a traditional desk for each person was not really necessary.


It’s easy to get caught in a loop of doing the same thing in the same way, and not considering other alternatives that might work better. That’s why it’s important to ask the right question.


I am not naturally adept at looking at things in an unconventional way, although I worked with many teachers over the years that were. The day I saw a teacher twisting bulletin board paper into rainforest vines my eyes were opened. Who knew it could be used for anything other than a way to cover a cork bulletin board?


Learning to ask questions differently and not just relying on convention may be a challenge at first, but it might be worth it when the end results help to solve your problem. 


Creativity Suggestion 

Nature

Anytime I need a creativity boost I know that getting out in nature is the key. Just opening up the window, and allowing in the fresh air can be very motivating. If you have not had a chance to visit the Grapevine Botanical Gardens I highly recommend it. In comparison to the Arboretum it’s quite small, but it’s peaceful, and beautiful, and free. The last time I visited, which was just a few weeks ago, I spent my time pursuing the creative endeavor of photography. As you know I like to post my favorites on Instagram as a gallery of sorts. Now that the weather is a little cooler it’s the perfect time of the year to return to nature. 

Monday, October 21, 2019

The Blank Page Revisited


The Blank Page Revisited
(Originally posted on June 3, 2019)

For me there is probably nothing more intimidating than the blank page. Not just any page, but the unlined page. I once signed up for an online course that required a blank sketch book and watercolors. 


The instructor was giddy over all the fun we were going to have as we expressed our creativity. The “fun” didn’t last long for me, and after my pitiful attempts I conveniently never finished the course. 


It works the same way when it comes to writing. Give me a brand new unlined journal, and you’re going to find that same blank journal weeks later. Give me lines, lots of lines, and you’ll have one happy camper. 


I couldn’t help but be tickled when a friend and former co-worker of mine posted on Facebook this past weekend how much she loved the blank unlined page. She’s taken on a 30 Day journal challenge this June, and seems to be enjoying herself. 
To quote Rita, “Lines make me feel trapped.”


I find it fascinating that in a world with so many different ways to look at things we often fall into thinking there is a best way for all. Be aware that the choices you make are in sync with your true nature. 


Creativity Suggestion 

Plan a Party

Today themed parties are very popular, especially children’s birthday parties. They actually can be fun to plan, and a great way to be creative. For inspiration check out Pinterest, and start looking around your house for things to use to enhance your theme. If you want to add another level of creativity put a dollar amount on what you want to spend. This will require you to be more resourceful in your creativity. 

Sunday, October 20, 2019

Haiku

Haiku
(Originally posted on March 7, 2015)
(This posting was written three months in to my blogging adventure. I’ve definitely seen growth in my writing since then.)
One of the things I like to do is write haikus. They are easy and fun. Just three lines long. Five syllables, seven syllables and five more. I remember a former gifted second grade student who could comprise haikus in her head. I'm not that good. But I do enjoy writing them about animals and nature. Here are a few I have written.
      
           Elephants can plod
          Slowly through the savannah
            Each one majestic
             

Pretty butterflies
            Fragile wings that gently soar
             Colors in the sky


Creativity Suggestion

Haiku

Choose a subject in nature, and challenge yourself to compose a Haiku.  They really are easy to do.  Collect your Haikus in a pretty journal. 


              


Saturday, October 19, 2019

The Myths of Creativity



The Myths of Creativity
(Originally posted on April 24, 2019)


Sometimes when we think about creativity we might envision someone living a more Bohemian lifestyle. You know someone whose dress and choices appear more unconventional than the average person. 


However, we would be wrong if we thought this was the only way to live a creative life. One of the myths of creativity is that there is only one type of creative person.


As it turns out, we all are creative in our own way. In fact, this is another myth that we are often told, that only some people are creative. This was the subject of a book by David B. Goldstein and Otto Kroeger, Creative You: Using Your Personality to Thrive. 


Because, we all “see the world in our own way, and we act accordingly,” creativity is going to look different for each of us. One of the mistakes we make is thinking that there is only one way to be or do something. 


I’ve always considered myself to be a creative person, but at the same time I never felt I fit the stereotype of an artist. I prefer order, and structure, and really don’t like getting my hands messy. 


I would be unable to function in a cluttered studio with everything amiss. I don’t usually think too much out of the box, and live my life in a pretty conventional manner. And yet, I’ve always been drawn toward words, imagination, art, and information. 


In their book Goldstein and Kroeger use the sixteen personality types of the Myers-Briggs personality assessment to support that creativity abounds in all types. 


As an ENFJ I am naturally a planner, and for me this actually contributes to my creativity. According to the authors, “Creativity doesn’t need to be spontaneous.” The Judging feature of my type actually performs better with some boundaries. 


I find this to be true in writing my blog. Although, I’m always on the lookout for inspiration, if I didn’t give myself the parameters of publishing three times a week, I might not actually follow through. 


Another myth about creativity is that it only has to do with the arts. I see creativity every day in my grandson as he problem solves how to maneuver his world. Just the other day he figured out a very clever and creative way to get his Tonka truck unstuck, and back to working order. 


Each time someone substitutes an ingredient in a recipe, or stretches a dollar, or comes up with a way to reuse something around the house they are being creative. Each person who has pulled together a birthday party using limited resources is a stunning example of creativity at its best. 


You don’t have to be a revolutionary or even counter-cultural to be a creative person. I used to think if I was a little more edgy in my dress than I would come across more artistic or creative. Except, my only problem was as Gretchen Rubin likes to say I’d feel like, “I was wearing a costume.”


What I’ve learned, though, is to be more in tune to my own nature, and not try to be someone I’m not. Being yourself is the first step toward allowing your own personal creativity to manifest itself. 


Don’t allow the myths of creativity to hold you back. Embrace your own creative flavor. 

How does your personality allow your creativity to shine?

Creativity Suggestion 

Vision Board

A few years back the Law of Attraction was all the rage. Now I’m not saying I fully buy into this, but I do know that what you focus on can effect your life. As a Christian I prefer to follow Proverbs, “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.” Sometimes having a visual reminder is a good way to keep us on track. A vision board is a creative way to do so. Creating a collage of pictures and words can be done using tangible materials, but it can also be done digitally. It might even be fun to invite a group of friends over to create together your vision boards. Once you are done display it in such a way to keep you inspired. 




Friday, October 18, 2019

Artist Date


Artist Date
(Originally posted on January 7, 2019)


Author and artist Julia Cameron promotes in her classic book, The Artist's Way something called the artist date. She describes this as,
 "An artist date is a block of time, perhaps two hours weekly especially set aside and committed to nurturing your creative consciousness, your inner artist."


This is an opportunity for you to carve out time each week to spend on a creativity excursion. In the pursuit of creativity it is critical that you are open to observing your surroundings. I have found that ideas seem to flow when I expose myself to good books, movies, podcasts, and discovery. Just being out and about can spark an idea that can be expressed in some creative way. 


My artist date this week was a soap quest. Recently, we started using some fancy, and handmade soaps that I had received as gifts. The difference between regular grocery store soap, and these higher quality soaps was very apparent, and Chuck and I decided to spend a little more on soap each month. 


I began my quest at a local craft mall, and spent some time checking out their selection. Along the way I came across some vintage style gift tags that had been made by an artist out of Weatherford. I was instantly enchanted, because they were perfect for my art journal. I had been missing this creative outlet, and these simple tags really inspired me to get started again. 


To be honest I did not find any soap that I was too crazy about, so I continued down the road to Whole Foods. I knew that they sold hand-crafted soaps, and wanted to check them out. Unfortunately, their cost per pound didn't quite fit into my budget, so I left without purchasing any. 


I traveled to Home Goods next, because I had purchased soaps there before as gifts for friends, and knew that they had good prices. I picked up two bars, and gave some thought to possibly making my own soap in the future. I had already pinned several examples on Pinterest, but had been hesitant becomes some soap requires lye. I think I’ll check into it some more.



What I enjoyed most, though, about my artist date was that although I didn't come away with homemade soap, I did come away with a new idea for my art 
journal. At first I was a little disappointed about the soap, but then I realized 
that being open to possibilities was the true aim of the artist date, and not just checking something off my to do list. 


Creativity Suggestion

Plan a Day Trip

Chuck and I have enjoyed taking day trips around the metroplex lately. With six weeks of vacation sometimes it’s just easier to stay close to home. One of our
favorite trips was to Waco to do all things Chip and Joanna. Just this past weekend we attended a class on herbs at North Haven Gardens in Dallas, had Reuben sandwiches at Cindy’s New York Deli, shopped at the Whole Earth Provision Company, and hung out at the Farmers Branch Historical Park. We played a game of checkers, and I took a plethora of photos to post on Instagram. The weather was perfect, and the day couldn’t have been any more enjoyable. Look for fun trips around your community to spark your creativity. 

Thursday, October 17, 2019

Originals


Originals
(Originally posted May 2, 2018)


I think I was an original until about the age of twelve. I marched, danced and even sang to my own beat without a care in the world throughout my childhood. The world was my oyster, and my imagination never waned.  


What did me in was junior high or middle school as it is called today. One foot into its illustrious halls found me in a nonstop comparison with everyone I met, and I usually found myself lacking. 


As a result I spent most of my time trying to be just like the elusive "everyone else." Clothing, hairstyles, accessories, shoes, likes and dislikes were no longer my own. I'd make sure to check on what the popular crowd was doing, and follow suit. 
I've been reading the book, Originals, by Adam Grant, and finding myself regretful for not sticking to my own originality. Sometimes even today I question whether I really like something or not, or has it just become a part of the self I like to present to the world?


Grant writes,
Conformity means following the crowd down conventional paths and maintaining the status quo. Originality is taking the road less traveled, championing a set of novel ideas that go against the grain but ultimately make things better."


Grant also points out that a high need for achievement does not always foster originality because of its fear of failure. I know for a fact that I was always driven to achieve and valued the recognition of both peers and authorities.


Stepping out into the waters of non-conformity was just too great of a risk. I've found, though, that through my fifties, and now into my sixties I have begun to recapture the originality of my youth. My quirks and interests are something I've stopped making excuses for, and have accepted my authentic self more kindly. I think that is the gift that aging brings. 


"It's better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation."
Herman Melville


Creativity Suggestion 

Crafts
Crafts are such a fun way to be creative with the guidelines of instruction. Pinterest flows with crafting ideas for all levels. Why not include a craft or two in your Christmas giving this year. There is just something about a handmade gift that makes it special. One year I made a crafty gift for a group of friends on a get away weekend. It was made from an acrylic picture frame, a post-it note, and some scrapbooking embellishments. It turned out really cute, and I had so much fun doing it.