Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Be Content


Be Content

Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.
—Lao Tzu

Contentment is often times easier said than done. However, my experience has been that as I’ve grown older, and perhaps wiser, I find myself more and more content. 
When I was younger I was always looking for the next big thing. Ironically, at the stage I’m at now I’m usually looking for smaller and less. 

Once I worried about every little physical flaw, while today I realize that there are many facets of aging that I have very little control over. So instead of fretting over the visible signs of aging I do the best I can with what I’ve got, and leave it at that. 

When I think of a role model for contentment I always think about St. Paul who reminds us in
Philippians 4:11-13 

“Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.”

Monday, December 30, 2019

The Better Idea


The Better Idea

The thing I think I love most about spending time with my oldest grandson is getting a chance to view life through his eyes. 

He got to spend spent a couple of days with us last week, and we really had a blast. 

One of his favorite things to do is paint, and I thought it might be fun to paint on real canvases, so we made our way to Michael’s to pick up our supplies. I had planned that after that we would try out a burger joint in Southlake that I had been on my radar. 

As we made our way to Michael’s we passed by the 54th St. Grill, which just so happened to have an outdoor patio with a fire pit. He immediately made a comment about the fire, and I asked him if he’d like to eat there. 

He seemed very excited about the opportunity to eat outside, and since the weather was unseasonably warm I decided that his idea for dinner was the better than mine. 

I’m so glad we followed his lead because along with some pretty delicious food we had a really enjoyable eating experience. We listened to the music, checked out the college football game every now and then, and warmed up to the fire which actually was in the middle of our table.

Best of all my grandson’s meal included a scoop of his favorite “nilla” ice cream for dessert. 


We returned home to paint cows using our new paints, brushes and canvases. Much to my delight the paint we had purchased was actually metallic, so our cows turned out pretty cool too. 

At four years old, our grandson reminds his grandparents to never stop having fun.






Wednesday, December 18, 2019

New Year’s Resolutions


New Year’s Resolutions

I’m thinking about expanding my repertoire of emojis in 2020. Just like a lot of other things in my life I get comfortable in what I’m doing, and need a kick in the pants to shake things up. 

The basic laughing crying face, the sad teardrop face, the uncomfortable smile face, and the home alone cat face seem to be my go-to’s when it comes to expressing myself. 

However, after a cursory examination there appears to be tons more that might express my feelings more exactly. A few months ago I had Chuck help me figure out how to make one of those totally personalized emojis. I love it, and use it for text messaging. I need to see if it works on Facebook. 

While we are talking about New Year’s resolutions I’ve learned a few things about myself over the years when it comes to naively thinking my life will greatly improve through the implementation of resolutions. Here are just a few of those insights:


I’m not going to choose a word for the year. 

I’ve ditched the fancy planner for an old fashioned Teacher’s Credit Union calendar to keep up with everything. Although, I do have a really nice planner my sister gave me that I enjoy filling out with other types of things. 

I’m not signing up for any online courses as I rarely ever finish them. 

I’m not setting a number of books to read for the year.

I’ll probably not attempt a daily gratitude journal because what I’ve discovered about myself is that it is almost impossible for me to keep up with these kind of things on a daily basis. 

What I will do is continue to walk during the week at the gym, continue to attend a Weight Watcher meeting weekly, and will continue to track my food. These all seem to be ingrained in my routine, and are actually good for me. 

Although, I might not always write it down I do thank God regularly for all His many blessings in my life. 

How do you feel about New Year’s resolutions?






Monday, December 16, 2019

The Babysitter


The Babysitter

I’ve been a little out of pocket this last week since I was babysitting my grandsons for four days, and finding time to write just wasn’t in the cards. Brittany and Will were taking a much deserved trip to Las Vegas for the big NFR rodeo, and I was available to watch the grandsons. 

I thought I might give a little recap of the adventure. First, I must give my daughter props for the very important and hard job that she does daily. As the mother of an only child I now realize how easy my job was. Double duty is just that, double duty. 

As you can imagine when you are awaken at five in the morning by the sound of, “Mimi!” you find yourself retiring before ten later that night. Of course, hearing your precious almost two year old grandson sit up in your bed ( I foolishly thought I might get a few more winks if I brought him into my bed), and exclaim, “Stevie, hmmm?” You see Stevie is their Elf on the Shelf, and even at this tender age the littlest wakes up excited to locate the rambunctious little Santa spy. 

Along with human wrangling I was also responsible for a little animal husbandry. Now mind you, this involved feeding the sheep twice a day which was actually not too hard. What gave me pause, though, was the birth of twin lambs which caused a little angst when it appeared that one of them wasn’t quite sure who was his mother. 

Now more than anything this was just due to my city slicker ways, and a heart two sizes too big when it comes to baby animals. It appears all is fine, but I didn’t want to lose anyone on my watch. 

The other animal related task was letting the chickens out in the morning, and closing up the coop at night. I now truly understand the old adage, “Letting the chickens come home to roost.”  What I found extremely amusing was the beeline the girls made to a particular pasture at break neck speed once I opened the coop door. Not unlike a “bat out of hell”, they seemed quite determined to get there as quickly as possible, perhaps with their legs crossed. I’m wondering if Brittany and Will are going to find a clutch of eggs under their pecan tree? Ever since the big storm, and the Wizard of Oz coop incident, they don’t seem to like laying their eggs there anymore.  

The days were definitely long, especially when I realized that eight hours had passed since awakening and nap time, but how can you resist their sweet smiles, and sticky hugs? After a day or two I learned to drape their socks over their boots to be ready for the next outdoor playtime, to cut a piece of bread into fourths to spread with peanut butter for the youngest since he liked to open up the sandwich to get to the good part, and to load the dishwasher after each meal, rather than waiting to clean up the kitchen late at night.  

We colored a lot (but if the truth be told the markers made their way onto the counter pretty early on), watched more tv than we should, read quite a few books, mastered the swings, made a chocolate cake with red and green sprinkles, and ended the night clean as a whistle. 

I wish I could say I had the patience of a saint the entire time, but this old Mimi’s nerves aren’t what they used to be. In fact, the oldest made a comment about my old age when I helped get him out of the tub, while holding on to my arm. When I asked him how he knew I was old he said, “Because your arms were squishy.”

So much for pretending 63 is the new 43!



Monday, December 9, 2019

Neck and Neck


Neck and Neck

The late Nora Ephron, screen writer of When Harry Met Sally, wrote a book in her sixties entitled, I Feel Bad About My Neck.

I learned something about my neck a few days ago while shopping for some winter shirts. Due to age, and a constant state of being too warm I haven’t bought or worn a sweater or a turtle neck in years. 

I constantly find myself pushing my sleeves up toward my elbows in an attempt to stay somewhat comfortable, all the while hoping a hot flash stays at bay. 

To be honest, I was pretty disappointed in the choice of basic “everyday” shirts I found this year, and trecked to several stores in a pilgrimage-like fashion trying to find something I liked. I’ll be the first to admit that unlike most women, shopping for clothes is not my favorite thing. 

Shopping for books, journals and art supplies, on the other hand are much more up my alley. However, I digress. 

Although, I knew that a regular turtleneck would be way too hot, I thought I’d try the less obvious mock turtleneck. I had recalled that about fifteen years ago they were my go-to winter shirts, so I figured I couldn’t go wrong. 

Maybe, I should have taken into account the state of my neck today, as compared to fifteen years ago. What I quickly discovered was that while a turtleneck completely hides your neck, a mock turtleneck hits it right at the most obvious spot of aging, and screams “over sixty with no sign of a facelift in the near future.”

As I decided on a few shirts, I chose the scooped neck variety due to the fact that they appeared to draw the eye away from the culprit, and they also came with my beloved three quarter length sleeve. No pushing required. 


This getting older is an interesting journey for sure with new discoveries almost daily. I now understand why Diane Keaton is never seen without a snappy little scarf tied around her neck!

Friday, December 6, 2019

A Whole Lotta Shopping


A Whole Lotta Shopping

How’s your Christmas shopping going? I have a friend who is already done, and has the presents wrapped and sitting under her tree. Very impressive indeed!

I’m happy to report that I made a huge dent in my shopping on Black Friday, which has been my practice for many years. My daughter and I have found that if you hit the stores at around 8:00 am there are no crowds, and plenty of sale merchandise still left. 

This year, though, in addition to my initial haul I’ve done some online shopping which has already arrived at my front door, and also did an online purchase that I picked up at the store. 

What made this trip to pick it up especially rewarding was the free Christmas wrapping that came with the purchase. So now I can officially say that I have one present under the tree. 

Tomorrow I’m attending a craft fair hosted by a local high school, and am hoping to find that perfect something so I can concentrate on getting everything wrapped. 

On a side note I’m also excited to be listening to some new Christmas albums on my Amazon music service. I’m so out of the loop that I have to google Christmas Albums 2019 to even know what’s new, but I love listening to all the old familiar songs.  

As they say in The Hunger Games, “May the odds be ever in your favor,” when it comes to finishing up your shopping in a timely fashion, and hopefully you don't find you making a mad dash to Walgreens on Christmas Eve for that last gift. 



Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Blue Zones


Blue Zones

As you’ve probably noticed I have a habit of sharing pictures on Face Book of healthy and delicious food choices. 

In response to one of my postings a former co-worker and friend of mine sent me a link about a cookbook she thought I might like.

It’s entitled Blue Zone Kitchen:100 Recipes to Live to 100, by Dan Buettner. It is a follow-up to the book The Blue Zones 9 Lessons for Living Longer written by Buettner. 

Now you may be wondering what a Blue Zone is, and will probably be surprised to learn that there actually is a Blue Zone in the DFW metroplex. 

According to Buettner, a Blue Zone is an area of the world where people’s habits influence their longevity resulting in that community living longer than most. His contention is that these habits are available to all, and will improve the quality of life as we age. 

In researching this I learned that Ft. Worth, Tx  about a year ago became the largest certified Blue Zone city in America. The city has committed to embracing a healthier lifestyle through both diet and exercise. 

If you are interested in learning more about this check out the following website:


Guess which cookbook just made its way on to my Christmas list!

Monday, December 2, 2019

Four


Four

Four years ago my life changed. I officially became a grandmother, a Mimi to be exact. The other day I thanked my daughter for making me a grandmother. 

I feel so blessed to be one. I did not have a very close relationship with my grandmother until I was eleven, and moved to Texas. My grandmother became particularly important to me after my mother passed away when I was only twenty-two years old. 

It became my practice to visit my grandmother weekly, and couldn’t wait for her to meet my daughter, Brittany. My grandmother lived to be ninety-eight years old, and shared with me so many stories about her life and my mother’s. I feel blessed to have known her. 

As I reflect back on the last four years, and the addition of a second grandchild to the mix, I feel doubly blessed. Both boys bring a smile to my face and keep me laughing. They remind me to keep that enthusiastic attitude about the little things in life.

Right now I hold rock star status in their eyes, and I’ll hold on to that as long as they are willing to extend it. The other blessing for me is getting to experience little boys. I was over the moon about my one and only girl, but boys are definitely a different animal, and so much fun. 

Seeing the world through their eyes helps to keep me young, and knowing that I’m important to them expands my purpose for this season of my life. 



So here’s to many more years, but the first four have been particularly sweet!